My narcissistic mother’s death was supposed to bring relief. Instead, it opened a door I never knew existed—because no one talks about what it means to lose the mother who broke you.
Hi, I’m Carole. I help daughters of narcissistic mothers reclaim their future because I’ve lived through the collapse, crawled out of the wreckage, and healed. I remember what it’s like to need hope you can’t yet hold on your own.
There was no relief—only panic, confusion, and my collapse.
It wasn’t until both my parents were gone and I was estranged from my sibling that the truth could finally rise. That’s when my healing truly began.
Through powerful channeling sessions with both my parents’ spirits, I uncovered answers I never imagined—answers that rewrote everything I thought I knew about my past, myself, and gave me the freedom to reclaim the future I was never allowed to imagine.
Now, I hold space for women like you—adult daughters of narcissistic mothers who are still in the trenches, still surviving, still bracing, still waiting for the chaos to end.
You may not be able to see the way forward just yet. That’s okay. I’ll hold the vision until you can.
The Framework of TWOB
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TWOB Body
TWOB Body explores how healing from narcissistic abuse, emotional trauma, and decades of self-suppression sparked a powerful shift in my body. This isn’t just weight loss—it’s the physical reflection of soul-deep change. When I started releasing emotional weight, the pounds followed. This pillar shares how belief, alignment, and identity work fueled my transformation from the inside out.
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TWOB Heart & Mind
TWOB Heart & Mind is where belief meets transformation. This pillar dives into the emotional reckoning that helped me release the version of myself that was built entirely around survival. Healing wasn’t about coping—it was about unlearning, confronting the beliefs and instincts that kept me tethered to my past, and choosing who I wanted to become. This is the space where mindset meets freedom, and self-belief becomes a way of life.
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TWOB Soul
TWOB Soul is where the veil thins. Some truths can’t be found in this realm—so I went beyond it. After my narcissistic mother died, the pain and unanswered questions only grew louder. So I did something radical: I connected with her spirit through a psychic medium. That one conversation changed everything. But it didn’t stop there—my soul healing deepened as we channeled my father, Jeshua ben Joseph, The Divine Feminine, and more. This pillar explores the spiritual revelations that helped me understand my past—and rewrite my future.
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TWOB The Hollow Passage
TWOB The Hollow Passage is the name I gave to the emotional freefall that began after my narcissistic mother died. The grief was confusing, distorted, and laced with rage and strange relief. The silence she left behind didn’t feel peaceful—it felt predatory. I feared she could still reach me from the grave. I couldn’t find a single resource that named what I was experiencing, So I created one. This is the space I needed, but couldn’t find—and now it’s yours.
Need somewhere simple to start? These free resources will light the way.
Whether your narcissistic mother is gone or you’re still living in her shadow, healing begins the moment you choose you.
I created these two powerful free resources to help you take your first step—or your next one.
1. The Booklist That Changed Everything
A curated list of life-altering, spiritual reads that helped me name what happened, reclaim my voice, and believe in my future. Think of it as a soul-level survival kit for daughters of narcissistic mothers. Grab your booklist here.
2. 5 Things No One Tells You About Life After a Narcissistic Mother Dies
Everyone talks about the grief of losing a mother. But no one talks about what it means when she was the one who broke you. This short, powerful guide reveals the unexpected truths that hit me after my mother’s death—and why my full healing didn’t start until she was gone. Grab your guide here.
Why I’m Here
I never imagined peace could come after a lifetime of chaos with my mean narcissistic mother. But it did—and I’m here to show you what’s possible.
I’m not a therapist. I’m a daughter of a mean narcissistic mother who didn’t start fully healing until both my parents were gone and the family system collapsed.
I know what it feels like to live in the fog—to second-guess your memories, your emotions, your worth. I know what it’s like to discover the truth too late and to wonder if healing is even possible after decades of surviving.
But everything shifted when I began channeling my parents’ spirits with the help of a psychic medium in a series of sessions I now call The Conversations We Never Had.
Those sessions cracked open truths I never expected—truths that rewrote my past and became the spiritual catalyst for my healing (read about my healing journey in my blog).
I’m here because I’ve lived it. I’ve crawled through the collapse, faced the truth, and found something breathtaking on the other side.
And now, I hold the vision for you—until you’re ready to hold it for yourself.
Walking with you on the path of belief,
Carole
The Sovereign Awakening That Changed Everything
My sovereign awakening began the moment I realized the story I’d been living wasn’t mine. It was hers.
My narcissistic mother’s story—her beliefs, her rage, her fears—shaped everything I thought I was and everything I thought I deserved (spoiler: it was all bad). But something cracked open after she died. And once it did, there was no going back.
This awakening wasn’t soft and it wasn’t spiritual in the way people like to package it. It was a soul-level uprising. It didn’t whisper—it roared! No more pretending. No more minimizing. No more surviving to make anyone more comfortable.
It was brutal. It was liberating. And it gave me my life back. Check out my healing blog.
If you’re still surviving—still pretending, still minimizing—I see you. And I know what waits when survival finally collapses under its own weight.